Here Is Today’s Question
Agatha H. asked:
Bishop Houston, my name is Agatha H. I am in a relationship with a man that won’t stop smoking drugs (weed is his drug of choice) and he comes home at all times of the morning. I love him, but I am tired. What should I do about this contaminated relationship?
Thank you for your question Agatha H.
Today’s Bible scripture reverences are from the
New Living Translation Bible versions”.
Answer:
Well Agatha, at times it’s easy for us to overlook how much God loves us and how much value we have in Him. When we lose sight of the greatness God has put on the inside of us, we can begin to make choices based on a poor self-image. Those decisions cause many Christians to end up in bad relationships. That’s because they lose their focus on protecting the special gifts God placed on the inside of them.
So, as a believer you should look to God. Your desire should be to please Him. You see, the morals of someone who has taken their eyes off Jesus will be different. The problem with trying to please people who aren’t serving God is you’ll eventually violate your conscience and become unhappy. Now, I have some good news for you. The good news is that God definitely has better relationships available for you if you’ll trust Him!!!
I’m encouraging you, if you feel that you’re in an unhealthy relationship, please don’t stay in it!!! Now, if you need more assistance go to your pastor or another godly adult who will counsel you and your friend.
Agatha, God will help you move from a destructive relationship into a strong, healthy one that fits your desire!!!
I’m standing with you as you seek God in your relationship. I encourage you to spend time thinking, meditating and praying over these scriptures I am about to give you. They relate to your friendship and relationship with God.
Psalm 37:4-5 (NLT)
“Take delight in the Lord, and he will give you your heart’s desires. Commit everything you do to the Lord. Trust him, and he will help you.”
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Psalm 119:63 (NLT)
“I am a friend to anyone who fears you— anyone who obeys your commandments.”
Proverbs 3:3-6 (NLT)
“ Never let loyalty and kindness leave you! Tie them around your neck as a reminder. Write them deep within your heart. Then you will find favor with both God and people, and you will earn a good reputation. Trust in the Lord with all your heart; do not depend on your own understanding. Seek his will in all you do, and he will show you which path to take.”
Proverbs 17:17 (NLT)
“A friend is always loyal, and a brother is born to help in time of need.”
Proverbs 18:24 (NLT)
“There are “friends” who destroy each other, but a real friend sticks closer than a brother.”
Proverbs 27:6 (NLT)
“Wounds from a sincere friend are better than many kisses from an enemy.”
Proverbs 27:17 (NLT)
“As iron sharpens iron, so a friend sharpens a friend.”
James 4:4 (NLT)
“You adulterers! Don’t you realize that friendship with the world makes you an enemy of God? I say it again: If you want to be a friend of the world, you make yourself an enemy of God.”
Thank you for your question Agatha H.
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